TAO
Tao Te Ching
Those who really want to be positive in life are open to both the negative and the positive.
Both are equal and have their function. This is a development, a learning process.
This goes at the same time as unlearning our natural tendency to separate things from each other. Zhuang Zi says:
Practice unity in every will movement. You should not listen with the ears but with the mind.
And not with the mind, but with the Spirit. Leave the work of the mind to the Spirit.
When the Soul is still and without images, it is open and can receive. In the open Soul TAO can descend.
Then the passionate embrace or rejection turns into calm acceptance;
The giving and receiving will take place without preference or disapproval;
Then the acquiring knowledge and wanting to be transformed will be in surrender to TAO